Your Body Was Made to Flow

Your Body Was Made to Flow

Fascia, lymph and the surprisingly changeable body

Some evenings I catch myself in the mirror and think:

*Well, hello there.*

My eyes are bright. My face looks defined. My skin has colour. I feel alive, attractive, magnetic.

Then I go to sleep.

The next morning, I can look suspiciously like a distant relative. My face is puffier. My eyes look smaller. My body is stiffer, and for the first few minutes I can feel considerably older than the woman who went to bed the night before.

Apparently, I aged thirty years while sleeping.

Fortunately, by lunchtime I often seem to have recovered several decades.

And that is where things get interesting.

Because if the same body can look and feel so different within twelve hours, chronological age clearly isn’t telling us the whole story.

Fluid is moving differently. Tissues are responding. Sleep, hydration, movement, stress, hormones, circulation, lymph and the nervous system are all participating in what we see and feel.

The body is astonishingly dynamic.

Which is very good news.

## It started with a missing S

My fascination with fascia began rather accidentally.

Years ago, I saw Jason from Human Garage doing what I thought was some kind of facial technique.

Excellent, I thought.

Perhaps I had just stumbled upon a natural facelift.

Then I realized he was talking about *fascial* work.

One little s had intervened.

No instant beauty treatment.

Instead, I found myself disappearing down an enormous rabbit hole into connective tissue, movement, hydration, the nervous system and the extraordinary web that runs through the entire body.

And frankly, it became much more interesting than the facelift.

I had been practising yoga since I was eighteen. I loved it. It centred me, calmed me and gave me strength.

Yet I remained surprisingly stiff.

Learning about fascia offered me another way to understand why.

Perhaps my body didn’t simply need more stretching. Perhaps there was an entire interconnected system responding to how I moved, breathed, sat, protected myself, rested and lived.

That changed the questions I began asking.

## We were taught the body in chapters

Most of us met anatomy as a collection of separate subjects.

The skeleton.

Muscles.

Circulation.

The nervous system.

Somewhere in there, the lymphatic system may have received a paragraph before everyone moved on to something more likely to appear on the exam.

The body itself is considerably less interested in these departmental boundaries.

Fascia surrounds and interweaves with muscles, bones, nerves, blood vessels and organs. It helps transmit force, allows tissues to glide and carries enormous amounts of sensory information.

The lymphatic system moves through this same living terrain, helping manage fluid balance, support immune function and return fluid from the spaces around our cells to circulation. Its movement is influenced by breathing, muscle activity, pressure changes and the way we move throughout the day.

Once I understood that, a puffy morning face became more interesting.

So did stiffness.

So did the days when my body felt gloriously fluid and others when I seemed to be wearing myself two sizes too small.

The question stopped being simply:

*What’s wrong with this part?*

It became:

*What is happening in the whole?*

## Your body is taking notes

Modern life gives the body some rather peculiar instructions.

Sit here.

Look at this screen.

Hold that position.

Breathe a little less.

Ignore the fact that you’re tired.

Think harder.

Keep going.

Repeat tomorrow.

And the body, being exquisitely adaptive, listens.

Years of limited movement, prolonged sitting, injury, surgery, stress and poor sleep can influence mobility, muscle tension, breathing and posture.

Stress itself has a shape.

The jaw grips. The shoulders rise. The abdomen tightens. The breath becomes smaller. The body organizes itself around protection.

Do that often enough and it can become your familiar way of inhabiting yourself.

People sometimes describe this as trauma being “stored in the fascia.” I use that language carefully. A traumatic memory isn’t sitting inside a strip of connective tissue waiting to be squeezed out.

But what we live through can influence the way the nervous system organizes the body. And when those patterns begin to change, interesting things sometimes happen.

A breath suddenly deepens.

The jaw lets go.

The body trembles.

Someone begins to cry without planning to.

Or there is no dramatic release whatsoever. You simply realize:

*Oh. I can breathe here now.*

Through years of working with Fascial Maneuvers, I have seen many versions of this. It is one reason I hesitate to label every new stiffness as simply:

*Aging. Next question.*

Age is part of our biology. It isn’t the only thing happening.

A living system responds to its conditions. Change the conditions, and sometimes the response changes too.

## The body prefers ensembles

The more I explored all of this, the more I noticed that the practices I loved rarely affected only one thing.

Walking moves muscles and joints, changes pressure through the tissues, deepens breathing and may give us natural light and a wider visual field at the same time.

Dance adds rhythm, coordination, expression, music and pleasure.

Breathing changes pressure through the chest and abdomen and can support venous and lymphatic return.

Hydration, nourishment, sleep, touch and time outside all enter the conversation.

This is why I become suspicious when wellness is reduced to one miraculous thing.

The body seems to prefer ensembles.

*The magic is often in the synergy.*

Even sleep, which can look like hours of doing absolutely nothing, is remarkably active. During sleep, the brain’s glymphatic system helps move fluid through and around brain tissue and clear metabolic by-products.

The night shift has arrived.

Repair. Regulation. Integration. Internal housekeeping.

Suddenly, “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” sounds like a remarkably poor wellness strategy.

## And then there is the earth

Grounding is another place where my curiosity has been shaped as much by experience as by theory.

When my body hurts or I feel emotionally agitated, I go outside barefoot.

Grass, soil, sand.

Sometimes I lie directly on the ground.

Very often, within ten or fifteen minutes, I feel different. Less agitated. More settled. More present. Sometimes my discomfort diminishes.

Research into grounding is still evolving, and its mechanisms are far from settled. But several helpful things may be happening at once.

I am outside. I’m receiving natural light. I’m away from a screen. I’m breathing differently. My feet are receiving rich sensory information. I have stopped rushing.

Perhaps the electrical relationship with the earth contributes too.

I don’t need to force a conclusion before I’m allowed to enjoy the experiment.

*Try it and notice.*

That is something I say often in my work.

Do it. Experience it. Notice what changes.

Your body gets a vote.

## Please don’t turn this into another full-time job

At this point, you may be thinking:

Wonderful. Apparently I now need an advanced degree in fascia, lymph, hydration and barefoot walking before breakfast.

You do not.

I am much more interested in a few practices that influence several systems at once.

*Move in different ways.* Walk, reach, spiral, twist, shake, dance. Our bodies thrive on variety.

*Breathe more fully.* Let the ribs, back and abdomen participate instead of making two square inches at the top of the chest responsible for the entire operation.

*Hydrate and nourish yourself well.* Pay attention to water, minerals, food, climate, activity and what your body is telling you.

*Work with your fascia.* Fascial Maneuvers, gentle unwinding, nourishing touch and other forms of bodywork can introduce new movement and sensory information. More force is not automatically more effective.

*Sleep.* Your brain has things to do.

*Go outside.* Get daylight. See the sky. Touch the earth. Let your eyes remember that the world continues beyond twelve inches from your face.

And please include something pleasurable.

There is a reason dance is such an important part of my work.

Movement with music, expression, rhythm and joy is a completely different experience from dutifully completing another set of exercises because somebody told you they were good for you.

One is maintenance.

The other can make you feel *alive*.

## Try this before you continue with your day

Three minutes.

That’s all.

Stand comfortably.

*Feel your feet.*

*Lengthen your spine.*

*Soften the front of your body.*

*Breathe.*

*Stay here.*

Then begin moving.

A sway. A spiral. A shoulder. A rib cage. Whatever your body seems interested in doing today.

No choreography. No performance.

Let your breath move with you.

Then become still again.

Notice your face. Your jaw. Your breathing. Your energy.

Did anything change?

Maybe a lot. Maybe barely anything.

Either answer is interesting.

You are learning your body’s language.

## Your body is still responding

The body isn’t a statue we were issued at birth that gradually chips away over time.

It is alive.

Responsive.

Adaptive.

In conversation with light, movement, nourishment, sleep, stress, touch, nature, thought, relationship and the world around us.

So when I wake up and temporarily appear to have misplaced thirty years of progress, I don’t panic.

Well, usually.

I get curious.

What happens if I walk, breathe, hydrate, move my fascia or get outside?

Quite often, the woman from last night begins reappearing.

There she is.

I knew she couldn’t have gone far.

This is one of the ideas beneath *LUMINOUS*.

We can care for the skin and the face, certainly. And we can look deeper, at the living conditions that allow the whole woman to feel more fluid, vital, expressive and alive.

You do not need to change everything.

Choose one thing.

Try it.

*Do it. Experience it. Notice what changes.*

Because the heaviness may not be the end of the story.

Neither is the stiffness.

Your body is still responding.

Still adapting.

Still capable of surprising you.

*Your body was made to flow.*

## A brief health note

Persistent or unexplained swelling, enlarged lymph nodes, significant pain or unusual fatigue deserve appropriate medical evaluation. Sudden one-sided swelling, redness or heat, chest pain, difficulty breathing, new neurological symptoms, fever, unexplained weight loss or persistent hard lymph nodes should be assessed promptly.